By Manfred Kets de Vries Against the cult of excellence that dominates contemporary political and cultural imagination, the idea of being “good enough” begins to look strangely appealing. Not incompetence or apathy, but procedural thinking,...
Personal development
Is There a Snake Under the Carpet?
Looking beneath the surface By Manfred Kets de Vries There’s an old tale about a girl and her drum. Day and night, she was beating on it relentlessly. No one could stop her. But the constant drumming drove the villagers to distraction. One by one,...
Building a Feedback Culture: From Silence to Strategic Advantage
In many organisations, silence speaks louder than words. While leaders often say they value feedback, the reality is more complex; people withhold insights, soften the truth, or avoid difficult conversations altogether. Yet in today’s environment...
The Behaviours That Drive Other Executives Crazy
By Manfred Kets de Vries Let’s face it — being in the upper echelons of leadership is a little like starring in your own surrealistic play. Everyone is properly dressed, everything looks neat and tidy, and yet chaos reigns. Not loud, dramatic chaos...
Type T Personalities: Living on the Edge
By Manfred Kets de Vries As a member of the New York Explorers Club, I am no stranger to thrill-seeking people. Perhaps, in some ways, I belong to this group myself. The club attracts individuals who are compelled to push boundaries — to climb...
High Performers: A Study in Paradoxes
By Manfred Kets de Vries High performers often resist easy classification. Their effectiveness rarely fits neatly into a formula because so many “filters” shape how success is defined and displayed. Not surprisingly, the first of these filters is...
Leading from Within: How Your Inner Theatre Shapes the Way You Lead
Ever feel like you're playing multiple roles at once: boss, mentor, fixer, visionary, therapist, and crisis manager, all before lunch? You’re not alone. Today’s leaders are juggling more than ever: hybrid teams, cultural shifts, climate anxiety, AI...
Not Knowing: The Challenge of Managing “Negative Capability”
By Manfred Kets de Vries Managing ambiguity sounds noble in theory. In practice, it’s disturbing and exhausting. Take, for example, a recent “brainstorming session” I attended at a high-tech company. The major investor, who had just taken over,...
The Art of Doing Nothing: Empty Time in a Period of Busyness
"There is more to life than increasing its speed." - Mahatma Gandhi In our hyper-connected world, doing nothing has become a lost art. Modern society has developed an addiction to busyness: we check emails compulsively, fill every moment with...
Why Group Coaching is Becoming an Essential Part of the Coaches’ Toolkit
It was around 100 years ago that Henry Ford, talking about teamwork, remarked: “If everyone is moving forward together, then success takes care of itself.” While at first glance that still seems applicable in 2024, in reality, the concept of a team...







